Where it starts
You are capable everywhere else. You also replay conversations, second guess decisions, and wonder how you did not see it sooner. That is not a character flaw. It is what happens after somebody you trusted taught you to doubt yourself.
You need somebody else to agree before you will trust that your own feelings are legitimate.
You replay conversations, trying to work out what actually happened and whether you were at fault.
You know something feels wrong, and you have learned to talk yourself out of what you know.
You over explain your boundaries, because you believe you need an argument convincing enough to justify them.
You mistake apologies, promises and temporary improvement for genuine change.
You know exactly what you never want again. You have not worked out what you actually do want.
A partner. A parent. A sibling. A best friend. This was not built for one kind of relationship.
One person says my spouse cheated. Another says my mother has manipulated me my whole life. Another says my best friend betrayed me. Those sound like different problems. Underneath, it is usually the same injury.
You cannot build boundaries you can hold before you have your own account of what happened. The order is the method.
I help people rebuild self trust after being hurt by people they trusted. I am not going to tell you whether to stay or go. I could not do that responsibly, and more to the point, somebody else deciding for you is how this started.
The goal is not to hand you my judgement. It is to rebuild yours until you do not need mine.
Most people start with a toolkit or the course. Coaching is there when you want somebody walking it with you.
Six questions, about ninety seconds, and the 25 scripts.
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Rebuild self trust after betrayal, abuse and painful relationships, so you can build a life you never want to escape from.
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